Meet Dolly Josette
Your Pleasure Muse & Somatic Sensuality Guide
Guiding women into deeper relationship with their bodies — helping them reclaim agency, heal pain, expand sensation, and reconnect with their powerful creative life force and pleasure.
What is Vulva Mapping?
Vulva-Vaginal Mapping is an unfolding somatic process that expands orgasmic potential by creating new neurological pathways to pleasure, healing trapped pain and numbness, building connection and acceptance, increasing anatomy knowledge, & strengthening sensations.
This unique genital mapping experience is based on the Somatic Sexological Bodywork™ approach to touching your genitals point by point, bringing stillness, attention & intention to notice what is felt physically and emotionally.
As you focus on sensation, Dolly guides you to feel for potential pleasure, tenderness, pain, numbness, or neutrality. If you were doing an in-person session, Dolly would be administering the touch. The brilliance of the online approach is YOU are touching your own body from the get-go, giving you AGENCY. Thus, you develop a command over your own felt experience as you deepen your ability to listen to sensation, emotions & stories the fascia is holding.
Through somatic mapping and embodied practice, you gain the language, tools, and confidence to experience the pleasure you deserve.
This cannot be done just talking about or looking at diagrams. It has to be a felt somatic experience, which is how we integrate this powerful transformation into new pleasure pathways.
When exactly were we suppose to learn about our own bodies?
In biology class? When we got our first period? The first time we had sex? When we graduated high school… or college? When we stood at the altar? Signed divorce papers? Held our first baby? When we had a miscarriage?
At the doctor’s office when something hurt “down there”?
When shame felt easier than asking questions?
When hormones shifted and desire grew quiet?
When menopause changed the landscape again?
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No one handed us a map.
And yet we were expected to navigate.
"I LOVE my OBGYN, but besides getting some fluid samples once a year, or helping with a pregnancy or STI, there’s not a whole lot of ANATOMY INSTRUCTION, much less PLEASURE LESSONS, happening!"
Meet Your Guide
Do you relate?
You crave comfort in your body.
You sense there must be more.
You feel frustrated, embarrassed, disconnected-- maybe even broken.
And it’s especially confusing when intimacy is supposed to feel natural.
I’ve been there.
Before becoming a Sexological Bodyworker, I was a successful television producer. I eventually left my first marriage largely because of sexual incompatibility. In my second marriage, just as I began to experience deeper satisfaction, multiple miscarriages and health challenges left me feeling broken all over again.
I was determined to understand my body — and intimacy — at a deeper level.
My husband and I scheduled a session with a Sexological Bodyworker. That experience changed everything.
It was the first time I realized how much we are never taught about our own anatomy, arousal, and capacity for pleasure. After my final miscarriage, I made a declaration:
“I want to understand sex as recreation — not just procreation.”
That decision led me to train and certify as a Sexological Bodyworker.
Vulva and Vaginal Mapping became my greatest breakthroughs — not only for pleasure, but for healing, regulation, and agency.
As my body shifted through perimenopause and I experienced painful penetration, this work once again became my anchor. I continued my own sessions with my mentor, Ellen Heed, and taught my husband how to map with me. Those partnered sessions became some of the most intimate, connected experiences of our marriage.
That is when the phrase Touch-Feel-Connect was born.
Today, I teach women how to develop that same relationship — with themselves first, and then with their partners.
Because when you learn to touch, feel, and connect with your own body, everything changes.
Professional Leadership
Dolly Josette is a certified Sexological Bodyworker and former President (2020–2021) of the Association of Sexological Bodyworkers.
She has hosted and produced professional trainings for the Certification of Sexological Bodyworkers in collaboration with the Institute of Somatic Sexology and Joseph Kramer, founder of the profession.
The Power to Heal & Hands On Sexual Therapies, featured in Hustler Magazine, calls her “a top practitioner in her field.”
Featured Touch-Feel-Connect skills:
AGENCY
The first Skill of my Touch Feel Connect Vulva Mapping is the skill of AGENCY. That’s right … you taking the bull by the horns and saying that you want this knowledge about your body. That what’s in-between your legs is not a deep black hole for others to poke and prod; that you want to get in the driver’s seat to truly understand your anatomy! That’s AGENCY! In other words, taking ownership and responsibility for your experience.
AROUSAL ANATOMY
Did you know that women have 5 erectile beds? Or the difference between your Vulva and your Vagina? Do you know if you are more sensitive in your Perineal Sponge, G-Crest, or your A-Spot? Have you ever felt your Cervix? Or why it’s important to know where your Urethra is located? Don’t worry … I didn’t know any of this before I became a Sexological Bodyworker. Learning to Identify your body's arousal anatomy of your pelvic floor helps you get in tune with your feminine wisdom and empowers your authority, pleasure and healing possibilities.
ATTUNEMENT
Our pelvic floor is our creative-life-force center that is home to our womb, our vulvas and our vaginas. There is so much to learn from these organs and tissues if we only take the time to pause and listen to them. Learning how to tune into your body’s needs, create a safe and nurturing space for yourself, and use tools of embodiment so you can better connect and attune are life long skills that are the foundation of this explorative discovery and connecting experience.
Curriculum
Watch Intro Videos
Nest Set Up Instructions
Review and Purchase Supplies
Body Anchor Meditation
Vulva Hug Practice
Daily Somatic Practices
Mapping #1: Vulva Felt Experience
Journal
Vulvar Massage
Daily Somatic Practices
Mapping #2: Anatomical Treasure Hunt
Mirror Work
Journal
Vulvar Massage
Daily Somatic Practices
Mapping #3: Vaginal Mapping
Remediation
Vulvar massage
Integration
Daily Somatic Practices
Journal
Vulvar & Vaginal Remediation
You'll have the option to upgrade to our Live Community Cohort with supplemental teachings by Dolly with Q&A plus hot seat coaching & support.
Show Me The Proof!
Vulvalicious Interview with Lisa Welsch
Sex with Emily Pleasure Mapping
Vulva? Vagina? Bueller? Anyone?
I was quoted as an expert in Cosmopolitan’s vaginal mapping article — and then decided to try their DIY instructions myself.
Spoiler alert: they skipped a few crucial lessons.
In this short video, I break it down with humor (and a little loving correction). Have a chuckle — and then ask yourself:
How much were we actually taught about our own anatomy?
3 Reasons why YOU want to master self-touch mapping & remediation:
You finally want to put your needs first, resolve shame and fear, and enjoy your body while you have it!
You want to deepen your connection with your sexual self, find a romantic partner; or cultivate a more alluring relationship with your current partner.
You want to become a sexual virtuoso, play your body like an orchestra and not limit yourself to the one or two notes you’ve been playing your whole life.
